Episode 3

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3rd May 2022

Replacing "managing up" with a culture of self-management

In our last episode, our host Sara Lobkovich took the antiquated concept of "managing up" to task. This episode is part two in this two-part series, where we dive into why and how organizations can replace "managing up" with building a culture of self-management. With norms established around expectations and goal alignment, communication, and candor and truthfulness, organizations can center their most important outcomes more effectively; manage healthy conflict to achieve necessary change; and trade inefficient spin- and politically-motivated posturing for increased comfort with difficult truths so that blockers can be tackled head-on.  A culture of consistent self-management reduces cognitive overhead for workers and leaders and gives everyone in the organization a shared language and practices to help increase mutual understanding of expectations and how people can succeed, together.  We'll introduce the three foundational elements of self-management:

  1. Clear expectations (and aligned goals)
  2. Mindful communication, and
  3. Candor & factfulness

and seven supportive factors that improve self-management effectiveness:

  1. Intentional fidelity
  2. Accountability & ownership
  3. Collaboration and cooperation (and knowing the difference)
  4. Emotional regulation
  5. Conflict competence
  6. Self-awareness, and
  7. Intellectual humility. 

These skills can be learned and developed by leaders and "doers" alike.

You'll hear how self-management ultimately enables everyone in the organization to do their best work: from the C-suite to the summer intern.

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Thinkydoers®
Leadership and career when you're at odds with mainstream business culture
Thinkydoers®, hosted by Strategy Rebel and OKR Coach Sara Lobkovich, is a community for unconventional leaders, status-quo challengers, and workplace “square pegs.” Thinkydoers are individuals who navigate the journey from insight to idea, through the messy middle, seeking courage and confidence to bring their visions to life.

Thinkydoers are a diverse group. We're disproportionately (but not exclusively) introverted and/or neurodivergent, and regardless of personality or cognitive wiring, Thinkydoers are strategic thinkers often underserved and misunderstood in traditional business cultures. Whether you’re a leader, an aspiring leader, or a behind-the-scenes “clutch player,” Thinkydoers aims to help you find more satisfaction, less frustration, and greater flow in your work.

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